Who am I?
Do you ever ask yourself the question, 'who really are you'? I ask myself, and observe myself, all the time. Some people really don't know who they are, they just go with the flow. Example: You ask someone the question, 'So why do you do that?' They might respond by saying 'I have been doing this since I was a child, I have seen my parents doing it'. Then you asked, 'Do you like doing it?' They reply by saying 'I have been doing it for so long, that it doesn't matter now'. With that statement I learned a lot. To me you never really said 'I love doing this, I enjoy every moment I get, So I look forward to this every chance I get'. So.... Do you watch people sometimes? Just to see if they are doing things because they have seen someone else doing it? Or are they doing it out of habit? Then ask yourself, 'Do I do this very thing that I have been secretly criticizing this person about? Do I hate, frown on, or dislike someone based on information that was said to me, that I have no way of knowing it was true? Is this me? Then ask yourself, what if someone dislikes you and you never knew why? Could it be what you did to someone else has came back on you? Or maybe it was because they judged you according to someone else's comments instead of getting to know you for themselves. There are so many people that you see on a daily basis that you see and probably acknowledge, but do you know them? Who are they really? If someone tells you a lie, would you believe it? or would you say 'no, no' to them? Questions, Questions to ask yourself So you can learn who you are, because you know you, and not because someone said something else about you. With Love Sugar Miss J SpeakToMissJ.com ThingsYouWantedToSay.com Kindly SUBSCRIBE, Like, Follow, Tweet, etc...
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There are plenty of days dedicated to appreciation. We have Mother's Day, Father's Day, Sports Teams Day, Valentines Day, Memorial Day, Labor Day, 4th of July, etc....
Even National Donut Day, National Soup Day, lol... Why not make a day that you Appreciate someone for what they do, like a National Local Hero Day.... Example: Housekeeping. They make sure that the area that you work in stays clean and presentable. They keep the restrooms clean. Since your mother doesn't work here, they even clean up your messes. Applaud them, give them something nice, for what they do. It is not easy to have to clean up behind full grown adults that 'know better', because those same adults take them for granted. Another Example: Security. If only you knew the stories they have to tell. If you are able to come and go to and from work without problems, Applaud them, they do a lot more than you think. Give them something nice. Just because they are not allowed to tell you what goes on at your workplace, doesn't mean it's not happening! Police Officers. Patrolling your neighborhood, keeping a watchful eye on your homes and businesses, even in the middle of the night when most people are asleep. Applaud them. Fireman. Often the first to arrive on the scene. Always there to Save your life, rescue someone or be a hero. Applaud them. Nurses and Doctors. People who are not afraid of germs and are still willing to take care of you and your loved ones when you are injured or sick, often under miserable or what some would consider gross conditions. Applaud them. Look around you. How many people are doing things behind the scenes that makes your life so much better, and these people often go unnoticed, unappreciated, and often underpaid. A little recognition. A little appreciation. A Thank you gesture/gift. These things go a long, long way. You might be the only person who ever said or did something nice for them. Be Quick to Give Respect and Appreciation to those around you. You will be surprised at the responses, and it will be very rewarding to you. With Love Sugar Miss J SpeakToMissJ.com ThingsYouWantedToSay.com Kindly SUBSCRIBE, Like, Follow, Tweet, etc... Do you allow anyone to cause you to feel guilty about something that happened to them, that you had no way of preventing.
Simply because they told you a sad, sad story? No matter what horrible thing happened to them, they don't want to let go and seem to carry it on and on. Their story travels from person to person, they are not seeking a way out - healing. They like the attention that goes with the poor, pitiful me story. If you are taking on someone's guilt, stop it, stop it! They are not wanting help, so stop wasting your time feeling sorry for them, and move on with your life. People like this love attention. Don't be a victim to other people's drama. This used to be me, but NOW I am spiritually able to see. With Love Sugar Miss J SpeakToMissJ.com ThingsYouWantedToSay.com Kindly SUBSCRIBE, Like, Follow, Tweet, etc... |
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